
The Myth of Perfect Timing
Waiting for the “right moment” is like waiting for the TTC to be on time during a snowstorm—you might be standing there forever.
The truth is, there is no perfect moment. Life is messy, unpredictable, and full of detours.
If you’re waiting for everything to line up before you take action, you’ll be waiting a long time.
Think about it: How many people dream of starting a business but say, "I'll wait until I have more money saved up." Or they want to go back to school but tell themselves, "Once things settle down at work, I'll apply." But months turn into years, and those perfect conditions never come.

A lot of people get stuck in what’s called analysis paralysis—overthinking every single step, trying to make sure they have all the answers before they even start.
But progress doesn’t come from obsessing over the perfect strategy. It comes from taking messy, unpolished, real action.
Think of it this way: A moving car is easier to steer than a

parked one. Even if you don’t know exactly where you’re going, movement gives you momentum.
✅ Example: Sarah wanted to start a side hustle selling homemade candles but kept waiting until she could afford a fancy website and professional branding.
One day, she decided to just list a few candles on Facebook Marketplace.
She got her first few sales, which built confidence and gave her the funds to invest in better packaging. If she had waited for the “perfect” setup, she might still be sitting on the idea today.
Clarity Comes From Action, Not the Other Way Around
One of the biggest lies we tell ourselves is that we need to have everything figured out before we start. But the reality?

Clarity comes from doing, not thinking.
Take any entrepreneur, artist, or change-maker, and you’ll notice a pattern: they started before they were ready.
Oprah didn’t have a master plan when she got into broadcasting.
Steve Jobs didn’t know Apple would become a tech empire.
Drake didn’t wait until he had an entire music empire before releasing his first mixtape—he dropped So Far Gone from his basement in Toronto and figured the rest out later.
When you take action—even if it’s small—it reveals the next step. You won’t know what works until you test things out in the real world.
The only way to gain experience is by putting yourself out there.
✅ Example: Kevin wanted to become a fitness coach but was overwhelmed by the thought of getting certified, building a website, and finding clients. Instead of waiting, he started training his cousin for free in his condo gym.
That experience helped him build confidence, and eventually, word-of-mouth brought him paying clients. He didn’t need a perfect business plan—he just needed to start.
Overcoming Fear and Self-Doubt

Let’s get one thing straight: fear is normal. Even the most successful people feel it. The difference?
They don’t let fear decide for them.
If you’re waiting to feel 100% confident before taking action, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.
Confidence isn’t a prerequisite for action; it’s a result of it. The more you take action, the more you build belief in yourself.
Instead of seeing failure as proof that you should quit, start seeing it as feedback.
Every “mistake” is just data showing you what to tweak. Athletes, musicians, and entrepreneurs all improve by doing—not by theorizing in their heads.
✅ Example: Anthony wanted to start a YouTube channel but was afraid of looking awkward on camera. His first video was shaky, his lighting was off, and he stuttered a bit.
But he posted it anyway.
A year later, he had over 50 videos, and his speaking skills had improved dramatically. If he had waited to be “good” at it before starting, he’d still be stuck in his head.
If you want to rewire your brain for action, start taking small, daily risks:
Post that first video even if it’s not perfect
Email that person you’ve been too nervous to reach out to
Pitch your idea even if you feel underqualified
The more you do uncomfortable things, the easier they become.
Practical Ways to Start Before You’re Ready
Big wins are just a series of small actions stacked on top of each other.

You don’t need a five-year plan to move forward—you just need to start where you are with what you have.
Here’s how:
✅ Use the 80/20 Rule – 80% of your results will come from 20% of your efforts. Focus on the small, high-impact actions instead of getting lost in the weeds.
✅ Leverage What You Already Have – You don’t need the best equipment, the biggest budget, or the perfect circumstances. Use the skills, tools, and resources already in your hands.
✅ Build Momentum With Micro-Wins – Set ridiculously small goals that are impossible to fail.
Want to start a YouTube channel?
Film a 10-second clip just to get comfortable on camera.
Want to write a book? Write one paragraph today. Action leads to more action.
✅ Example: Rachel dreamed of becoming a fashion designer but couldn’t afford expensive materials.
Instead of waiting, she started by thrifting old clothes and transforming them into unique pieces.
She posted her work on Instagram, gained a following, and eventually turned her passion into a full-time business.
Navigating Setbacks and Roadblocks
Reality check: things will go wrong.
You’ll have setbacks, delays, and unexpected obstacles.
That’s just part of the process.

The key isn’t avoiding failure—it’s learning how to bounce back.
Here’s how to keep moving forward when things don’t go as planned:
🚧 Stay Flexible – If one approach isn’t working, pivot. The goal stays the same, but the method
can change.
🚧 Reframe “Failure” as a Test – Instead of seeing setbacks as personal failures, treat them like experiments. What worked? What didn’t? Adjust and keep going.

🚧 Lean on Your Community – You don’t have to do this alone. Surround yourself with like-minded people who remind you why you started in the first place. Whether it’s an online group, a mentor, or friends who get it, community makes the journey easier.
✅ Example: Marques opened a café, but after six months, business was slow. Instead of shutting down, he pivoted—he started selling his signature cold brew at farmers' markets and eventually landed deals with local grocery stores.
If he had given up at the first sign of struggle, he wouldn’t have found an even bigger opportunity.
Final Thoughts

The difference between people who chase their dreams and those who don’t? Action.
Not perfect action. Not perfectly planned-out action. Just imperfect action.
If you take nothing else from this, remember:
small, inspired, imperfect steps will always get you further than waiting for the “right” moment.
Your dream doesn’t need to be perfect.
Your plan doesn’t need to be flawless.

You just need to start.
Whatever it is—starting a business, going back to school, launching a creative project—start today.
Your future self will thank you for sowing past seeds.
Thank you as per usual for your readership and wishing you many blessings and connection for the rest of BHM!
-Tara "Articulate Tee" Omorogbe
(Founder of www.articulatetee.com)(Est.2020)
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